Sono nata donna (e questo è evidente) e sono cresciuta in un mondo di uomini.
Era un mondo di uomini quando mi sono iscritta a ingegneria, quando vivevo in collegio (ovviamente maschile), nella mia breve esperienza da modella (comandavano loro), quando ho iniziato a lavorare, quando ho cambiato lavoro e ancora e poi ancora. Circondata da uomini…. in un mondo che, privo della linfa vitale al femminile, mi è sembrato molte volte secco e rattrappito….Non dovrebbero essere ovunque! Ora sono anche in coda davanti a me dal mio parrucchiere, sono più di noi, comprano più creme di noi, hanno il chirurgo estetico personale, sono in cucina (perchè saper cucinare è fashion) e quando hanno fatto tutto quello che la loro categoria maschile gli permette di fare, trovano il coraggio di trasformarsi in donne (loro possono, dato che è più facile togliere che mettere…) e sono più bravi di noi, anche su un tacco 12… Io da loro ho imparato tanto e di questo ne riparleremo.
Ma l’ingegnere è una categoria a parte.
Nell’immaginario collettivo l’ingegnere non spera di “avere dei voti scritti sul libretto” ma si augura “che la derivata del libretto rispetto agli esami non sia nulla” (letto in un blog di ingegneri). Per lui/lei il tramonto è il risultato di una rifrazione e l’arcobaleno? la scomposizione della luce. L’ingegnere ti spiega ogni fenomeno naturale e paranormale, indossa un maglioncino del mercatino vicino l’università, ha nel DNA una piccola ventiquattrore, il suo biberon è a forma di penna per prendere appunti e la prima lettera che impara è X… la seconda Y.
Sono decisamente nata ingegnere con la non trascurabile variante di essere bionda.
Questo vuol dire che la mia ventiquattrore è di Louis Vuitton, la mia penna Montblanc e indosso un tailleur di Armani, ovviamente con Louboutin tacco 12.
Può sembrare una forma di masochismo decidere di tumularsi per cinque anni in un Politecnico e un pò, in effetti, lo è. Ma quando ti succede che nello stesso giorno hai la sfilata della vita accanto all’allora modella (e ancora tutta italiana) Carla e l’esame di “Campi elettromagnetici e circuiti” e non scegli Carla… allora ti accorgi che il tuo destino è segnato con la ruspa e le equazioni di Maxwell con la natura ondulatoria della luce ti attraggono di più dei flash dei fotografi. E Carla? Non era bionda e nemmeno ingegnere. Ma, forse, aveva ragione lei… (per chi non lo sapesse è stata première dame di Francia).
In questa vita piena di contrasti e di contraddizioni, nella continua ambiguità di una verità e del suo contrario, ho capito che la serenità si trova nella ricerca dell’equilibrio, in ogni cosa che fai. Questa ricerca è fatica, impegno, dolore, ogni giorno una soluzione da trovare, una scelta da compiere, una delusione da sopportare… ma poi arriva il momento del riposo, un momento tutto tuo e quel momento, deve essere perfetto.
Io voglio il perfetto nei momenti dedicati a me.
Cerco l’equilibrio dentro di me e scelgo la perfezione fuori di me; ed è di questo che parleremo dal prossimo post. E’ questo il filo conduttore del mio blog.
Dedicato a tutti coloro che ancora cercano il bello…uomini, donne, coppie perchè
“La bellezza è una di quelle rare cose che non portano a dubitare di Dio.”(Jean Anouilh)
Ho letto attentamente quello che hai scritto e anche se non ti conosco mi sento di complimentarmi con te, ti capisco perché anche io ho dovuto confrontarmi tutta la mia vita in un mondo di uomini e so che non é facile, però dovrai riconoscere che ha molto più merito chi riesce a trionfare diventando una donna in carriera e realizzata in questo mondo attuale, e non é detto che in un futuro non molto lontano, saremo noi a comandarlo.
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Grazie Maite per le tue parole. La strada per le donne è ancora molto in salita ed è per questo che dovremo imparare ad avere momenti tutti per noi, uno spazio vitale in cui ricaricarci. E’ un concetto che gli uomini conoscono bene e, devo dirti, abbiamo molto da imparare da loro (ne parlerò in uno dei mie prossimi post). Il futuro di cui parli lo vedo purtroppo ancora lontano ma, intanto, in ogni cosa che facciamo, ogni giorno, possiamo cominciare a metterci un pò di “profumo di donna”, un’essenza al femminile che rende ciò che lasciamo meglio di come lo abbiamo trovato. Continua a seguirmi….
Complimenti, è davvero molto interessante, ma come trovare il perfetto nei momenti dedicati a sè stessi?
Grazie Alfredo. E’ la regina di tutte le domande. Il bello e il perfetto dipende dagli occhi di chi lo guarda. “Chiedete al rospo che cosa sia la bellezza e vi risponderà che è la femmina del rospo.(Voltaire)”…Per me (che non sono un rospo..) è un soggiorno perfetto in ogni dettaglio, con mia figlia, in un resort termale immerso in un paesaggio naturale che ti fa sentire a contatto con l’infinita bellezza dell’universo. Magari con un evento serale dedicato al tango argentino. Seguimi nei prossimi post, parlerò di luoghi, particolari scelti con cura che rendono quei momenti davvero perfetti.
Innanzitutto grazie a te cara ingegnere Bionda per questo ..chiamarlo blog è riduttivo..direi più un insegnamento(di vita)!Qualcuno lo chiamerebbe “What women wants”.. e poi rispondo ad Alfredo.. come mamma,lavoratrice ma soprattutto come Donna (anche se nn proprio di primo pelo)… I momenti dedicati a se stessi sono già PERFEZIONE pura ..è l attimo più o meno lungo che ci permette di stare bene..
Grazie Giulia per i tuoi pensieri. Quanto è vero quello che dici! Mamma, lavoratrice, Donna… ma quante persone insieme! Già solo avere un momento per sè stesse è un allineamento stellare! Seguimi nei prossimi post e spero troverai utili i miei consigli per fare in modo che quei momenti durino più a lungo possibile perchè se stiamo bene noi, stanno bene tutte le persone di cui ci occupiamo tutti i giorni.
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Prima di leggere i tuoi post ho guardato attentamente la foto che ritrae una donna in equilibrio su di un confine. Un passo dopo……
il vuoto.
Mi comunica coraggio.
“Ingegnere o bionda?”
La tua domanda mi ha fatto pensare a un dilemma storico; intelligente o bella? Mamma o donna in carriera?…….
Leggendo i tuoi post ho percepito grande coalizione di tutte queste modalità di essere donna.
Che sia questo il segreto di un sano equilibrio?
Che sia questo il segreto per vivere il perfetto dei momenti dedicato a se stessi?
Mi hai suscitato tanta curiosità.
Ti seguo.
Grazie Stella per le tue domande che sono già una risposta. Ci vuole coraggio a guardarsi dentro e capire chi sei. Ci vuole coraggio ad accettare ogni parte di te e a mettere in equilibrio (a volte precario) ogni scoperta del tuo essere meraviglioso. Ci vuole coraggio a scegliere quel sano egoismo che ti permette di investire anche su te stessa. Ci vuole coraggio ad essere Donna davvero… la mia esperienza al servizio di tutti coloro che hanno o vogliono trovare questo coraggio…. continua a seguirmi.
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